Dating rules sex

06 Jan

Have you ever wondered if there are any real rules about sex when you are dating? There are plenty of happily married couples that will tell you that they had sex on the first date and then they got married. Having sex with someone very quickly is not the problem in and of itself, its more about how you behave and interact . As long as you understand what the sex signifies, you can have it at anytime you feel comfortable.

You need to make rules, the rules that feel comfortable for you. The old adage that if you sleep with him on the first date means the relationship will never work out is not true.

I mean, God forbid, let’s not reveal any feelings we may have. "Always waiting for the guy to initiate contact is annoying to most men," says Harold, 35."At some point you need to let him know you're interested by reaching out.Personally, I've never been educated about the rules of relationships.So following the so-called rules, including listening to my friends when they tell me not to text someone, has not been my forte. Every group of 20-somethings will tell you something different, but from my research, these are the most common rules of dating and sex: You must not date anyone younger than you, or anyone who is “too old” for you.So I opened myself to the dating world: hesitant, not really all in, but at least open to it.I quickly learned that there are a whole lot of unspoken rules to dating and sex these days. And as much as you’ll hear me say, “I’m too old for this shit,” I am gradually accepting that these so-called rules exist and those of us in the dating world are actually following them for some bizarre reason.Here are 6 rules to Have boundaries while being real.It is important to have boundaries and to not reveal more or do more than you are completely comfortable with.So we meet someone we like, we exchange numbers and the games begin!Here are some of the rules I’ve recently learned and personally think are total bullshit: You need to wait at least three days to get in touch with the person you had a date with.