Sex dating christian life

17 Jan

Q: “My girlfriend and I are Christians but we are sexually active.We know we are in the wrong and that God’s teaching tells us to be pure and wait till we are married.What We Want: A Blessed Life We claim we want God’s blessings, but how do we actually get them?Just look at the bible for clues: What is the common denominator of all these verses? God is looking to bless those who obey His guidelines for life, including His guidelines for relationships.There is a gray area on sex-before-remarriage-after-divorce, because we aren't meant to divorce in the first place. Would I need to abstain from sex unless God changed my heart on getting married again?This whole situation has me confused between God's will for me and my own desires. I want what God wants for me more than anything because I know that his plans for me are far better than my own, but it seems I've started the course in a way that makes it hard to see the clear path.QUESTION: I am 30 years old and have been married and divorced twice.

To be intimate with someone is to be close to him or her, to reveal private information, to feel linked together.

We see in their strange, contradictory behavior two important truths about premarital sex:1. Amnon's behavior following the rape is a reaction to his guilty conscience.

It is much like Adam's when he was confronted with his sin and blamed Eve for the fall.

We wear shirts proclaiming we want “the good life.” Songs are written about the good life.

People want the good life, a blessed life, yet they rarely plan and prepare for making the decisions and choices that create a life God can bless!